Sunday, October 26, 2008

Sunday Best


Today our ward enjoyed the Primary Sacrament Meeting Program. It is truly one of my favorite Sundays of the year. During the Primary Program the children (ages 3 through 12) are responsible for our main worship service. Each child is assigned a part, and the presentation is always touching, charming and often times amusing.

I have to chuckle at the different attitudes that the Marshman boys take concerning the Primary Program. Several weeks ago, when the practices for the program began Adam rushed to find me right after church and told me with audible concern with his voice, "Mom! You won't be able to see me in the program if you don't move your seat on the program day!! I am on the other side of the room from where we always sit!!" I assured him we would move to a point in the chapel where his Dad and I could see all three of our boys.

Adam gasped with rising fear in his voice, "That will be impossible!!" I assured him that we could figure it out...

Evan said shrugging nonchalantly, "You'll never see me...I'm behind the organ." His tone sounded as though he was totally unconcerned.

Then I asked Brian where he would be sitting during the Primary Program and he looked at me blankly and said,

"The what?"

You see...very different attitudes.

The program was as charming as always, and Mike and I were able to sit strategically so that all three of our boys were visible to us. Mike and I are awesome like that. Sweet Adam need not have feared.

We did have to chuckle to ourselves at how differently our boys behave during the actual program.


Evan was calm, cool and collected. He didn't even blush when the much taller young man that spoke before him pushed the microphone waaaaay down so that our, *ahem* much less tall Evan , could use it right at the correct level.


I whispered to Mike that poor Adam looked like he was about to be executed. When his Primary class lined up to take turns at the microphone Mike got him to smile weakly by holding his fists up in the, "fisticuffs" position as if to say, "Go get 'em champ". Adam's stage fright was clearly visible and his cheeks and ears were red (which I found totally endearing) as he spoke. I was so happy for him that he made it through and did such a great job. He seemed to calm immediately after his turn at the microphone was over.


Brian seemed totally unconcerned that he was sitting up on the stage, and did not let the potential for hundreds of eyes to be looking at him at any given moment deter him from wriggling in his seat. At one point his shoes were visible due to some very vigorous upward leg swinging but...don't worry...I was able to lovingly glare him into taking a more reverent seated position. He did a fine job during his time at the microphone and I found his heavy nose breathing between every few words endearing as well.

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I know that I used humor when I described the events of Sacrament Meeting today... but the tears of gratitude that came as I listened to all of those sweet children of God take part in the program, makes me so grateful for my membership in His church and that all of our children are
learning the truths of gospel so young.



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October 2008 Evan (11 years and 3 months old) Adam (8 years and 3 months old) and Brian (5 years and 5 months old)

24 comments:

My name is Andrea said...

You want more tears? Wait until next year when Evan is a Deacon and is sitting WITH YOU! I love how every child, even when raised identically, has their own little spirit with it's own personality. That took talent to get seated to be able to see ALL of them!! :o)

Stevie said...

We just had our first practice yesterday... I was in charge of the seating chart, and it was mass chaos! When it was his turn, Macen told the teacher who was prompting at the microphone "My mom forgot to help me memorize my part." Braden refused to sing because I had recently confiscated the rocket ship he snuck into Primary. I'm gearing up for the next three weeks! :) But it's true, Program Sunday is my favorite because those kids are so sweet, even when their feet are visible due to violent leg swinging! (I'm not sure a glare from me could ever stop my kids from doing that--they'd just add a smile to the action.) I started tearing up a couple times during the practice yesterday--I better prepare myself!

Annemarie said...

Hands down...BEST Sunday is Primary Program Sunday!! I love that Brian said "The what?" SOOO TRUE!
And the heavy nose breathing inbetween words??? Well, that's just pricelsee. It's stuff like that that makes it so good, and cute!

Any nose pickers?

diane said...

I missed ours this year when I was out of town. It is my favorite Sunday.

Your descriptions make me feel like I was there. So funny and touching. Priceless.

Jaime said...

So we went to OH to see Britt and it turned out to be there Primary program too. We totally scored--nothing better than visiting a ward and getting to see the kids instead of the high council speaker. I am sure your visitors were grateful too! No costumes?

Melissa-Mc said...

The Primary Program is definitely my FAVORITE Sacrament Meeting of the year! One year my husband and I couldn't stop laughing as we watched 2 Sunbeams in front as they were singing "I'm Trying to Be Like Jesus." As they sang they were literally shoving each other and elbowing each other.

Amy said...

"lovingly glare him into taking a more reverent seated position"

you got skilz L.

Paige said...

I love the pics. Why do we bother taking the "perfect" ones when the crazy ones turn out so much better? I really wanna do it for a Cmas card this year. Do you dare me?

Aleasha said...

I love your writing! Ava was totally excited to see Brian up there! (i told you, they will be married some day....) Honestly, I hope you are okay with that! :) Your boys did great and I love the primary program as well!

Boden Family said...

That was so sweet! Oh....how I love the primary program. Your boys are totally cute!

Bridget said...

The primary program does rock. That is so cute that your boys personalities were coming through so much. Love the silly pic too.

Tristan said...

So cute! Our Primary Program is next month! Maddie's first time! Should be entertaining!

Ashlee said...

Ya gotta love those Primary Programs. Honestly, my favorite kids are the ones who breathe HEAVILY into the microphone. I always get a giggle.

♥Shally said...

Ours is coming up soon! I love it.

I cry EVERY time.

Your boys are DARLING.

Aleasha said...

I'm so glad you like the new profile. your the first one that has said anything about it! i think it depicts exactly what ben allred was talking about in church, don't you? i mean, how do you not think 'unity' when you look at that!?!?!?!?!?

Jake said...

Happiest Sunday of the year!

nic said...

So great how everyone does it their own way. Evan is cool. I remember being his age and just cringing having to be up there singing Mommie I love you in front of everyone in the world. At Eric's las couple programs, he found the tallest person and then would crouch behind them to hide.

I love the Primary Program!

Christy and Kevin said...

Wow, only 18 comments... are you losing your touch??? NAWW that couldn't be it. You are my favorite blogger in the world. I was just thinking this week how excited I am for little Alex to be in the program....I wonder what his take will be...

Hazen5 said...

The Primary Program is my favorite Sunday of all. We just had ours, I laughed and cried! I love the picture of all your cute Men!!

Linsey said...

What sweet boys you have, just like their momma! Primary program is the best Sunday, hands down.

Tiffany -- the mommy said...

It was a great program and from where I was sitting (you know on the stage) there was nothing but when is this gonna be over. I loved it and the kids were great!

Unknown said...

How wonderful! So glad I found your blog today. Thanks for sharing this experience.

Suzanne said...

I'm with you...I always LOVE the primary program. It's amazing to see how they change from year to year. Your description of your boys is pretty much right on, I think most people can relate to at least one!

Wendi said...

You have a beautiful family.
Love that silly photo...I think it is screaming Christmas card!
Maybe you could photoshop yourself in too!